Overblog
Editer l'article Suivre ce blog Administration + Créer mon blog

 

The reader may well believe that statistics obtained on the basis of answers provided by boys in the adolescent forums, on the topic of such experiences, could be biased or exaggerated, as certain contributors may wish to be noticed in an environment where bravado and boasting are routine currency. I would suggest that not only is that likelihood low, but it seems to me that these statistics may well under-represent the actual situation -- so deeply engrained is the fear of being branded as a "fag" that it trumps all desire to be provocative or to seem emancipated. The very reason such revelations appear to us as astonishing is precisely the secrecy in which they are normally shrouded, as witnessed by their own admissions:

 

Well. Everyone's different and will take that kind of news in a different way so because sometimes their reactions are the complete opposite of what was expected, experimentation is usually kept on the down low. It's one of those situations that a large majority of guys know that it happens (whether they choose to or not) but it not mentioned very often in conversation besides on GovTeen and other sites like it. (GT, 15yo, USA, PA)

 

We keep it kinda hush hush. Not like a HUGE DEEP DARK SECRET! But out of respect to anyone you ever have sex with or do something with, it’s usually polite not to tell anyone any ways (GT, 15yo, USA, TX)

 

I think a lot of guys do it, I don't think they all tell. I would say don't tell (GT, 16yo, USA, MI)

 

I think it's something you should really keep quiet but then again, depends on the friends and your group... feel it out (not literally...) and make a decision... if it were me, I wouldn't be shouting from the rooftops that I jacked it with a bunch of guys... although, on my friends hockey time, they all played soggy biscuit and ripped on the guy who lost for a couple months (only with the guys, never in mixed company) I don't know... (GT, 15yo, USA)

 

I think a lot of guys have wanted to and a few have actually experimented. I think like 25% of guys have experimented with friends. Me and one of my friends have jerked off together, but we tend to keep it secret, I don't think anyone knows except for his long time girlfriend, who doesn't really care. (GT, 14yo)

 

Well! Everyone's different and will take that kind of news in a different way so because sometimes their reactions are the complete opposite of what was expected, experimentation is usually kept on the down low. It's one of those situations that a large majority of guys know that it happens (whether they choose to or not) but it not mentioned very often in conversation besides on GovTeen and other sites like it. (GT, 15yo, USA, PA)

 

If i told everyone, i would get my ass kicked (GT, 14yo)

 

I jacked off with my friend and I would never tell anyone. It would be stupid to. It would just create labels that I don't want. (GT, 15yo, USA, CA)

 

Tag(s) : #Adolescent, #Boy, #Forum, #Internet, #Quizz, #Sexual life, #Sexuality, #Survey, #Teenager, #Teens, #Questionnaire, #Bisexual, #Gay, #Homosexual, #Poll, #Straight, #Straight but Curious, #Confused, #Experiment, #sexual orientation, #Coming of age
Partager cet article
Repost0
Pour être informé des derniers articles, inscrivez vous :